35 ChatGPT Prompts for Family Law Attorneys (Claude, ChatGPT & DeepSeek)
Tuesday is your new client intake. Wednesday is the mediation session where opposing counsel shows up with a draft parenting plan that rearranges every holiday schedule you spent two hours mapping out. Thursday is the QDRO letter to the pension plan administrator that requires specific actuarial language you have to look up every single time.
Family law is the most document-intensive practice area outside of active litigation — and it's document-intensive in every direction at once.
The American Bar Association reports that solo practitioners and small-firm attorneys (1–3 lawyers) handle approximately 70% of all family law cases in the United States. These are practitioners who can't outsource drafting to a large firm's associates, who spend their own time writing parenting plans that run to 25 pages, who personally field the 11 PM client calls about custody exchanges gone wrong. According to Clio's 2025 Legal Trends Report, family law attorneys spend an average of 2.3 hours per day on administrative writing that is not directly billable — drafting correspondence, client communication scripts, position summaries, and court communication letters.
These 35 prompts cover seven family law documentation workflows: parenting plans, child support documentation, QDRO and property division letters, domestic violence protective orders, client communications, mediation preparation, and career and business development. They work with Claude, ChatGPT, and DeepSeek.
Critical note: AI-generated legal documents must be reviewed, revised, and verified by a licensed attorney before use in any matter. These prompts generate drafting frameworks — they do not constitute legal advice, and jurisdiction-specific requirements vary significantly. Never use AI-generated content in a client matter without attorney review.
Why Family Law Attorneys Write More Than They Should Have To
Three dynamics drive the family law documentation burden.
First, every case is a custom fact pattern. Unlike commercial contracts or criminal law where forms evolve over time into standard templates, family law documents — parenting plans, custody schedules, property settlement agreements — must be drafted around the specific financial, geographic, and relational facts of each family. There's no form that works twice.
Second, the stakes create revision cycles. A parenting plan that is slightly ambiguous about who provides transportation on alternating Thanksgiving weekends will generate a contested motion in 18 months. Clients often push back on draft language, generating multiple revision rounds on every document.
Third, QDRO and retirement account division requires specialized language that most solo family law practitioners don't use daily. Plan administrators reject QDROs for technical deficiencies that require re-drafting and re-filing — at the attorney's time cost.
AI handles the initial drafting and structural framework. You supply the family-specific facts and apply your legal judgment. These 35 prompts cut drafting time on the documents that consume most of your non-billable hours.
Category 1: Parenting Plans and Custody Documentation
Family law attorneys describe parenting plan drafting as the single most time-intensive document in their practice. These prompts generate the structural framework — you fill in the family-specific facts and apply your jurisdiction's requirements.
Prompt 1 — Standard Parenting Plan
Draft a parenting plan framework for a divorcing couple with minor children.
Parties: [PARENT A NAME AND ROLE (mother/father)] and [PARENT B NAME AND ROLE]
Children: [NAMES AND DATES OF BIRTH — or "Child 1, age X; Child 2, age Y"]
State/jurisdiction: [STATE — note any specific statutory requirements you know of]
Physical custody schedule:
Regular school-year schedule: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Parent A has children Sunday 6 PM through Thursday school pickup; Parent B has children Thursday school pickup through Sunday 6 PM"]
Summer/school break schedule: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Alternating 2-week blocks with each parent during summer break; summer begins on last day of school"]
Holiday schedule: [LIST KEY HOLIDAYS AND ALTERNATING ARRANGEMENT — e.g., "Thanksgiving: Parent A in odd years / Parent B in even years; Christmas Eve with Parent A, Christmas Day with Parent B — alternating annually"]
Legal decision-making authority: [JOINT — describe decision categories / SOLE — specify which parent and for what decisions]
Transportation: [WHO PROVIDES TRANSPORTATION FOR EXCHANGES — e.g., "Each parent responsible for transporting children to the other parent at the start of their parenting time"]
Communication: [PARENT-TO-PARENT COMMUNICATION EXPECTATIONS — e.g., "All major communications via co-parenting app (TalkingParents or similar) within 24 hours"]
Relocation provision: [REQUIRED NOTICE PERIOD AND PROCESS IF EITHER PARENT MOVES]
Standard parenting plan framework. Flag where jurisdiction-specific provisions will need to be inserted. Under 600 words.
Prompt 2 — High-Conflict Custody Schedule
Draft a detailed parenting time schedule for a high-conflict custody case with specific provisions to minimize direct parental contact.
Parties: [PARENT A] and [PARENT B]
Children: [AGE(S)]
Conflict level: High — [BRIEF CONTEXT — domestic violence history / significant communication breakdown / child aligned with one parent]
Physical custody proposed: [SPECIFIC SCHEDULE — e.g., "50/50 week-on/week-off OR Primary with Parent A, every other weekend with Parent B"]
Exchange mechanism to minimize contact:
Location: [NEUTRAL — e.g., school drop-off/pickup / third-party location / police station parking lot]
Third-party transportation: [IF APPLICABLE — designated third party to conduct exchanges]
Direct contact protocol: [NO DIRECT VERBAL COMMUNICATION AT EXCHANGE — written/app only]
Communication requirements:
Platform: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Our Family Wizard or TalkingParents — no text or phone calls"]
Response window: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "24-hour response requirement for non-urgent matters; 2-hour response for health and safety emergencies"]
Tone and content restrictions: [WHAT IS AND ISN'T PERMITTED IN CO-PARENT COMMUNICATIONS — child-centered only]
Right of first refusal: [APPLICABLE — define trigger hours / NOT APPLICABLE — why]
Emergency provisions: [WHAT CONSTITUTES AN EMERGENCY / NOTIFICATION PROTOCOL]
High-conflict parenting plan format. Add language to address specific known conflict triggers. Under 600 words.
Prompt 3 — Parenting Plan for Long-Distance Co-Parents
Draft a long-distance parenting plan framework for parents living in different states or regions.
Parent A location: [CITY AND STATE]
Parent B location: [CITY AND STATE]
Children: [AGE(S)]
Anticipated travel distance/time: [FLIGHT / DRIVE HOURS]
Primary residence: [WHICH PARENT AND CITY — why this is the primary residence]
Long-distance parenting time schedule:
Regular school year: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Child primarily with Parent A; Parent B has 8 weekends per year in [CITY] with 5 school days adjacent to holiday weekends"]
Summer: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Child with Parent B for 6 consecutive weeks; Parent A has 2-week summer visit"]
School breaks: [THANKSGIVING / WINTER BREAK / SPRING BREAK — describe split or rotation]
Travel logistics:
Who books travel: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Traveling parent responsible for booking direct flights where available"]
Age-appropriate unaccompanied minor policy: [APPLICABLE AT AGE X / NOT APPLICABLE YET]
Travel cost allocation: [HOW COSTS ARE SPLIT — e.g., "Travel costs shared equally / Parent B pays all travel costs for their parenting time visits"]
Virtual parenting time: [FREQUENCY AND PLATFORM — e.g., "Video calls minimum 3 times per week, 30 minutes each, scheduled at agreed time zones"]
Decision-making for distance cases: [HOW MEDICAL/EDUCATIONAL DECISIONS ARE MADE ACROSS DISTANCE]
Under 500 words. Flag that airline unaccompanied minor age policies vary by carrier.
Prompt 4 — Parenting Plan Modification Petition Summary
Draft a summary memo for a parenting plan modification petition.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [ROLE — mother/father]
Opposing party: [ROLE]
Current parenting plan: [BRIEF DESCRIPTION — current custody arrangement]
Date of current plan: [DATE]
Material change in circumstances: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Opposing parent has relocated from [CITY] to [CITY] for employment, a distance of X miles, which renders the current week-on/week-off schedule unworkable"]
Proposed modification: [SPECIFIC NEW ARRANGEMENT]
Best interest factors supporting modification: [JURISDICTION-SPECIFIC FACTORS — list the relevant factors and how the facts support modification in your state]
Evidence to support: [DOCUMENTS, WITNESS LIST, PRIOR ORDER VIOLATIONS — specific]
Case memo format for initial modification assessment. Under 400 words.
Prompt 5 — Custody Evaluation Summary for Attorney Review
Write a summary memo analyzing a custody evaluation report for attorney use.
Case: [PARTY NAMES]
Evaluator: [NAME AND CREDENTIALS]
Date of report: [DATE]
Recommended custody arrangement: [WHAT THE EVALUATOR RECOMMENDED]
Favorable findings for our client:
1. [SPECIFIC FINDING THAT SUPPORTS OUR CLIENT'S POSITION]
2. [SPECIFIC FINDING]
3. [IF APPLICABLE]
Unfavorable findings:
1. [SPECIFIC FINDING ADVERSE TO CLIENT]
2. [SPECIFIC FINDING]
Questionable methodology or conclusions:
[ANY EVIDENTIARY CONCERNS — testing methodology, observation limitations, factual errors in the report, evaluator bias indicators]
Recommended strategy:
Accept the recommendation: [YES / NO — and why]
Challenge areas: [SPECIFIC FINDINGS TO CHALLENGE AT TRIAL AND HOW — cross-examination themes, counter-evidence]
Supplemental expert: [RECOMMENDED OR NOT — and why]
Attorney analysis memo format. Under 400 words.
Category 2: Child Support and Financial Documentation
Prompt 6 — Child Support Deviation Justification Memo
Draft a child support deviation justification memo for an above-guideline or below-guideline request.
State: [STATE — child support guidelines system used: income shares / percentage of income / Melson formula]
Parties: [NAMES]
Calculated guideline amount: [$X per month per guidelines worksheet]
Requested amount: [$Y per month — ABOVE / BELOW guideline]
Deviation factor(s) applicable under [STATE] law:
[FACTOR 1 — e.g., "Extraordinary educational expenses — child attends specialized private school for learning disability at $24,000/year, required by IEP"]
[FACTOR 2 — e.g., "Extracurricular activities established pre-separation — child has competed in elite gymnastics program at $18,000/year for 4 years"]
[FACTOR 3 — if applicable]
Why guideline amount would be unjust or inappropriate: [SPECIFIC LEGAL STANDARD IN YOUR STATE — cite statute or case law if known]
Supporting evidence: [DOCUMENTS AVAILABLE — invoices, school records, expense history]
Deviation memo for motion or mediation statement. Under 350 words.
Prompt 7 — Income Imputation Argument Memo
Write an income imputation argument memo for a spouse claiming underemployment or unemployment.
Case: [PARTIES]
Spouse at issue: [NAME — role in case]
Current claimed income: [$X — or "currently unemployed"]
Basis for imputation argument:
Prior income history: [LAST VERIFIED INCOME — amount, source, date]
Voluntary change in employment: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Resigned position as software engineer earning $175,000/year in March 2025 — two months after separation filing"]
Education and credentials: [DEGREE, LICENSES, WORK HISTORY — capacity to earn]
Local job market: [AVAILABLE POSITIONS IN SAME FIELD AT COMPARABLE SALARY — specific evidence if available]
Proposed imputed income: [$X — basis for this figure]
Legal standard for imputation in [STATE]: [CITE IF KNOWN — e.g., voluntary underemployment, bad faith unemployment, ability and opportunity to work]
Argument memo for child support or alimony calculation dispute. Under 350 words.
Prompt 8 — Marital Balance Sheet for Property Division
Write a marital balance sheet narrative for property division negotiations.
Parties: [NAMES]
Property division system: [COMMUNITY PROPERTY — [STATE] / EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION — [STATE]]
Major assets:
Marital home: [ADDRESS — estimated value, outstanding mortgage, equity]
Retirement accounts: [TYPE, OWNER, APPROXIMATE VALUE — QDRO required? YES/NO]
Investment/brokerage accounts: [OWNER, APPROXIMATE VALUE]
Vehicles: [MAKE/MODEL/YEAR, APPROXIMATE VALUE, LOAN BALANCE]
Business interest: [NAME, VALUATION METHOD USED OR PROPOSED]
Other significant assets: [DESCRIBE]
Debts:
Mortgage: [BALANCE]
HELOC: [BALANCE IF APPLICABLE]
Credit cards — marital: [TOTAL BALANCE]
Other marital debt: [DESCRIBE]
Proposed division:
Our client receives: [LIST OF ASSETS — total estimated value]
Opposing party receives: [LIST OF ASSETS — total estimated value]
Equalization payment (if applicable): [$X to be paid from [SOURCE] by [DATE]]
Property division summary for negotiation or mediation. Under 400 words.
Category 3: QDRO and Retirement Division Letters
Prompt 9 — QDRO Preparation Letter to Plan Administrator
Write a QDRO preparation inquiry letter to a retirement plan administrator.
Attorney: [NAME AND BAR NUMBER]
Client (alternate payee or participant): [ROLE IN CASE]
Recipient: [PLAN ADMINISTRATOR NAME AND ADDRESS]
Plan name: [EXACT PLAN NAME — as it appears on participant's statement]
Participant: [NAME AND LAST 4 SSN — or "last four digits available upon written request"]
Alternate payee (client): [NAME]
Divorce decree/settlement: [PENDING / ENTERED ON DATE — court and case number]
Information requested:
1. Plan administrator review procedures and sample QDRO if available
2. Separate interest vs. shared payment option availability
3. Survivor annuity election requirements
4. Required QDRO form or drafting instructions
5. Current plan balance or benefit statement for participant
6. Pre-approval review process and timeline
7. Filing and processing fees (if applicable)
8. Current contact for QDRO review and questions
Under 300 words. Professional letter format. Note that attorney represents [CLIENT ROLE] and reference the divorce proceeding.
Prompt 10 — QDRO Preparation Letter to Client
Write a client explanation letter about the QDRO process.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
QDRO context: [CLIENT'S ROLE — alternate payee (receiving share) or participant (giving share)]
What is a QDRO: [Plain language explanation — what it is, why it's needed, what it does]
Timeline clients should understand: [TYPICAL STEPS AND TIME — e.g., "After your divorce is final, we draft the QDRO, send it to the plan administrator for pre-approval review (typically 30–90 days), file the approved order with the court, then submit to the plan administrator for implementation"]
What we need from you: [SPECIFIC DOCUMENTS OR INFORMATION — most recent retirement plan statement, plan administrator contact info, SPD if available]
Cost to expect: [IF APPROPRIATE TO MENTION — QDRO drafting fees, plan administrator processing fees]
Common issues that can delay QDROs: [2-3 SPECIFIC — e.g., "Plan administrator pre-approval process with complex defined benefit plans; obtaining participant's most recent statement; court processing time"]
Your next step: [WHAT YOU WANT THE CLIENT TO DO — e.g., "Please call your HR department and request the plan's QDRO procedures and administrator contact information"]
Under 350 words. Plain language — clients frequently don't understand what a QDRO is or why it takes time.
Prompt 11 — Property Division Agreement Section: Retirement Accounts
Draft a property settlement agreement section addressing retirement account division.
State: [STATE]
Parties: [NAMES]
Retirement accounts to be divided:
Account 1: [TYPE — 401(k)/403(b)/pension/IRA, etc.], [OWNER], [PLAN NAME], [ACCOUNT BALANCE OR BENEFIT AMOUNT AND DATE], [PERCENTAGE OR AMOUNT TO ALTERNATE PAYEE]
Account 2: [IF APPLICABLE]
Account 3: [IF APPLICABLE]
IRA transfer method (if applicable): [DIRECT TRANSFER INCIDENT TO DIVORCE — note IRS IRC §408(d)(6) treatment]
QDRO requirement: [YES — list which accounts require QDRO / NO — IRA direct transfer only]
Survivor benefit provision (defined benefit plans): [ALTERNATE PAYEE TO RECEIVE SURVIVOR BENEFIT / PARTICIPANT RETAINS SURVIVOR BENEFIT — AND WHY]
Marital portion calculation method: [COVERTURE FRACTION / FIXED DOLLAR / PERCENTAGE OF PRESENT VALUE — which applies to which account]
Responsibility for QDRO costs: [SPLIT / ALTERNATE PAYEE / PARTICIPANT]
Draft contract language only. Flag jurisdiction-specific requirements for attorney review. Under 400 words.
Category 4: Domestic Violence Protective Orders
Prompt 12 — DVPO Application Narrative
Draft a domestic violence protective order application narrative section.
Attorney: [NAME — or "client self-represented" if pro se guidance]
Petitioner: [ROLE — wife/husband/partner/parent]
Respondent: [ROLE]
State: [STATE — note DVPO statute name if known: e.g., Order of Protection, Civil Protection Order, Restraining Order]
Relationship: [INTIMATE PARTNER / CO-PARENT / FAMILY MEMBER — duration of relationship]
Most recent incident requiring immediate protection: [DATE AND SPECIFIC DESCRIPTION — what happened, location, injuries if any, witnesses if any]
History of prior incidents: [CHRONOLOGICAL — dates, incident descriptions, injuries, whether law enforcement was called, any prior orders]
Specific fears or current threats: [WHAT THE PETITIONER FEARS WILL HAPPEN WITHOUT PROTECTION — specific, credible threats or escalating pattern]
Children's involvement: [CHILDREN PRESENT / CHILDREN AT RISK — specific incidents involving children]
Prior orders or case history: [PRIOR PROTECTIVE ORDERS, CRIMINAL CHARGES, FAMILY COURT HISTORY — dates and outcomes]
DVPO application narrative. Flag that specific statutory requirements and standard forms vary by state — this narrative supplements the official form. Under 500 words.
Prompt 13 — Safety Planning Letter to Client
Write a safety planning letter for a client in a domestic violence situation.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [GENDER-NEUTRAL — or specify]
Current living situation: [STILL IN HOME WITH ABUSER / RECENTLY SEPARATED / SAFE LOCATION]
Safety planning elements to cover:
1. If still in the home: [Specific safety planning language — e.g., "Identify the safest exits from your home and the room with the lowest risk if a situation escalates"]
2. Documentation: [What to document and how — photos, medical records, screenshots, police reports — and where to store safely (not in the shared home)]
3. Emergency contacts: [Who to call and when — 911, domestic violence hotline: 1-800-799-7233, trusted support person]
4. Important documents to secure: [List — ID, passport, birth certificates, financial records, medication, children's school records]
5. Technology safety: [Phone account separation, tracking app check, email/account passwords]
6. Protective order: [Status of DVPO — filed / pending / in place — and what it means in practice]
7. Legal steps ahead: [Brief overview of next legal steps without being overwhelming]
Empathetic, practical, plain language. Under 400 words.
Prompt 14 — Emergency Custody Motion for Domestic Violence
Draft a declaration supporting an emergency custody motion in a domestic violence context.
Attorney: [NAME AND BAR NUMBER]
Moving party: [NAME AND ROLE]
Children: [AGES]
Immediate danger: [SPECIFIC — what happened, when, what the children witnessed or experienced]
Most recent incident: [DATE AND DESCRIPTION — specific enough to support emergency finding]
Pattern of prior incidents: [CHRONOLOGICAL — if applicable, brief reference to history]
Why normal notice is insufficient: [SPECIFIC RISK OF HARM IF NOTICE IS GIVEN — e.g., "Respondent has made explicit threats to flee with children; has a history of following through on threats; has current access to children under existing schedule"]
Specific relief requested: [TEMPORARY EMERGENCY CUSTODY TO MOVING PARTY / SUSPENSION OF RESPONDENT'S PARENTING TIME / SUPERVISED PARENTING ONLY PENDING HEARING]
Supporting evidence available: [POLICE REPORTS, MEDICAL RECORDS, PHOTOS, WITNESS STATEMENTS — list]
Declaration/affidavit format. Factual and specific — emergency custody motions are judged on specific facts, not general allegations. Under 500 words.
Category 5: Client Communications
Prompt 15 — Initial Consultation Follow-Up Letter
Write an initial consultation follow-up letter to a new family law client.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [FIRST NAME]
Consultation date: [DATE]
Case type: [DIVORCE / CUSTODY / MODIFICATION / ADOPTION / OTHER]
Summary of situation discussed: [2-3 SENTENCE OVERVIEW OF WHAT THE CLIENT SHARED]
Recommended next steps:
1. [SPECIFIC FIRST ACTION — e.g., "Retain our firm by signing the engagement agreement and paying the retainer by [DATE]"]
2. [DOCUMENT REQUEST — e.g., "Gather your most recent 2 years of tax returns and last 3 months of pay stubs"]
3. [COURT-SPECIFIC ACTION — e.g., "If you have been served with divorce papers, the response deadline is [DATE] — this is time-sensitive"]
Realistic expectations:
Timeline: [GENERAL TIMELINE FOR THEIR TYPE OF CASE — e.g., "Contested divorce typically takes 8–18 months in [STATE]"]
Cost range: [GENERAL RANGE — e.g., "Uncontested matters may resolve for $X; contested cases with trial typically range from $X to $Y"]
Process overview: [WHAT THEY SHOULD EXPECT IN THE NEXT 60 DAYS]
Next meeting: [SCHEDULED DATE AND TIME — or "Please contact us to schedule your next appointment"]
Professional but empathetic tone. Under 350 words.
Prompt 16 — Client Update Letter — Status During Litigation
Write a client update letter explaining the current status of a family law case.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Update period: [DATE RANGE OR EVENT]
Current case status: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "We have completed the financial disclosure exchange. [Opposing counsel] filed their required financial affidavit on [DATE]. We are now in the pretrial discovery phase."]
What happened recently: [SPECIFIC EVENTS — e.g., "The deposition of your spouse was completed on [DATE]. The key admissions obtained were [DESCRIBE — attorney notes on testimony]."]
What is coming next: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "The settlement conference is scheduled for [DATE] at [TIME]. We will meet the week before to prepare."]
What we need from you: [SPECIFIC ACTION ITEMS — documents, information, decision-points]
Your role in the upcoming step: [WHAT THE CLIENT NEEDS TO DO OR DECIDE]
Professional, clear, client-friendly. Avoid legal jargon. Under 300 words.
Prompt 17 — Difficult Client Conversation Script — Realistic Expectations
Write a client conversation script for managing unrealistic custody or financial expectations.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client expectation to address: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Client expects primary custody despite prior DUI conviction and limited involvement in children's schooling" OR "Client expects to receive the house AND half of spouse's 401(k) despite significant premarital contributions to the home"]
Why this expectation is not realistic: [LEGAL AND FACTUAL BASIS — specific, not generic]
How to open the conversation: [EMPATHETIC OPENING — acknowledge what the client wants before explaining why it's unlikely]
Alternative realistic outcome to propose: [SPECIFIC ALTERNATIVE — what is actually achievable]
How to explain the legal basis: [PLAIN LANGUAGE — why the law and facts support the alternative outcome]
How to handle pushback: [ANTICIPATED CLIENT RESPONSE AND HOW TO REDIRECT — e.g., "When the client says 'but my friend got full custody,' respond with..."]
Closing: [How to end the conversation constructively and maintain client relationship]
Conversation script format. Under 400 words. Empathetic but honest.
Prompt 18 — Client Communication Policy for High-Conflict Cases
Write a client communication policy letter for a high-conflict family law matter.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Matter context: [HIGH CONFLICT — describe if relevant — opposing party litigious, history of false allegations, client tends toward emotional communication]
Communication policy elements:
Response time: [REALISTIC EXPECTATION — e.g., "We respond to all communications within 1-2 business days. Urgent matters (court deadlines, emergency situations) receive same-day response."]
What constitutes an urgent matter: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Court-ordered deadlines, child safety emergencies, being served with emergency motion papers"]
What you should NOT send us: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Lengthy transcripts of text exchanges, social media screenshots without explanation, emotional narrative emails — please summarize and call if the situation is complex"]
How to organize your communications: [PRACTICAL GUIDANCE — numbered questions, chronological summaries]
Cost management: [How communication decisions affect billing — every email and call is billed time]
Co-parenting app: [If applicable — confirm which platform communications should occur on, and that you may subpoena those records]
Professional and clear. Under 350 words. Sets expectations without being cold.
Category 6: Mediation Preparation
Prompt 19 — Mediation Position Statement
Draft a mediation position statement for a family law case.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME AND ROLE]
Opposing party: [NAME]
Mediator: [NAME IF KNOWN]
Mediation date: [DATE]
Issues for mediation:
1. Physical custody and parenting time: [CLIENT'S POSITION AND BASIS]
2. Legal decision-making: [CLIENT'S POSITION AND BASIS]
3. Child support: [CALCULATION BASIS AND CLIENT'S POSITION]
4. Division of marital home: [CLIENT'S POSITION AND BASIS]
5. Retirement account division: [CLIENT'S POSITION AND BASIS]
6. Spousal support/alimony: [CLAIMED OR OPPOSED — and basis]
7. Attorney's fees: [REQUESTED OR OPPOSED]
Priority issues (what our client must achieve): [TOP 2-3 NON-NEGOTIABLE ITEMS]
Areas of potential compromise: [WHAT CLIENT IS WILLING TO MOVE ON]
Known opposing party priorities: [WHAT OPPOSING PARTY WANTS — based on pleadings or prior discussions]
Mediation position statement format. Under 500 words. Factual and objective — mediators respond to reasonableness.
Prompt 20 — Client Mediation Preparation Memo
Write a client preparation memo for a family law mediation session.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Mediation date and location: [DATE, TIME, AND LOCATION]
What mediation is (for clients who haven't done it before): [Plain language — 3-4 sentences. Distinguish from court. Explain the mediator's role vs. their attorney's role.]
What to bring: [SPECIFIC LIST — e.g., recent pay stubs, most recent retirement account statement, list of questions or concerns]
What to expect emotionally: [Honest preparation — mediation involves hearing things that are difficult. How to stay focused on outcomes, not score-keeping]
Communication during mediation: [When to speak directly, when to defer to attorney, when to caucus separately with attorney]
How to evaluate proposals: [Framework for evaluating settlement offers — don't accept or reject immediately, discuss with attorney privately during a break]
Decision authority: [You have the authority to settle or not settle — no settlement can be imposed on you. What factors to weigh.]
Our goal for this session: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "We want to reach agreement on parenting time and begin property discussion. We are not expecting to fully resolve all issues today."]
Client-facing plain language. Under 400 words.
Prompt 21 — Post-Mediation Client Letter — Agreement Reached
Write a post-mediation client letter explaining the agreement that was reached.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Mediation date: [DATE]
Agreement summary: [ISSUES RESOLVED AND HOW — specific terms]
What happens next: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "I will draft the written Marital Settlement Agreement and Parenting Plan based on the terms we agreed to today. You will receive the draft within [X] business days for your review."]
What the client should review carefully: [SPECIFIC ITEMS TO FOCUS ON — e.g., "Please review the holiday schedule carefully to ensure we captured your priorities correctly; also review the QDRO language for the 401(k)"]
Remaining issues: [IF ANY — what was not resolved and next steps]
Timeline to finalization: [WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THEY APPROVE THE DRAFT — filing, waiting period, hearing if required]
Empathetic and clear. Under 300 words. Celebrate progress without over-promising on the outcome being permanent.
Category 7: Professional Development and Business Development
Prompt 22 — Family Law Subspecialty Profile
Write a professional profile highlighting family law subspecialty expertise for a website or directory.
Attorney: [NAME AND BAR NUMBER]
Years in family law: [NUMBER]
Primary focus areas: [LIST — e.g., "High-asset divorce, collaborative law, child custody and relocation, domestic violence protection, adoption"]
Jurisdictions admitted: [STATES]
Notable credentials or training: [e.g., "Certified Family Law Specialist — [STATE BAR], Collaborative Law training, trained mediator"]
Client philosophy: [1-2 sentences — attorney's approach to family law matters]
Case types handled: [SPECIFIC EXAMPLES — without identifying client information — e.g., "High-asset divorce with complex business valuation", "Interstate custody relocation disputes"]
Professional affiliations: [ABA Section on Family Law, AAML, state bar family law section — membership/leadership]
Professional profile format. Under 300 words. Active voice throughout.
Prompt 23 — Client Review Request (Avvo/Google)
Write a follow-up email requesting a client review after case completion.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client (former): [FIRST NAME]
Case completed: [APPROXIMATE DATE]
Platform requesting review: [AVVO / GOOGLE / MARTINDALE / STATE BAR DIRECTORY]
Tone: Professional and grateful — not pushy
Email structure:
Acknowledge the case conclusion and express appreciation
Briefly explain why reviews matter for family law attorneys (helps clients in difficult situations find the right representation)
Specific request: [WHAT YOU'RE ASKING THEM TO DO — click this link, leave a review on this platform]
What to include in the review: [OPTIONAL GUIDANCE — e.g., "If you're comfortable sharing, mentioning the type of matter and your general experience would be helpful to others considering similar representation"]
No pressure closing: [Acknowledge that you understand if they'd prefer privacy given the sensitive nature of family law]
Under 250 words. Authentic and low-pressure. Family law clients often have privacy concerns about public reviews.
Prompt 24 — Firm Newsletter Article: Family Law Topic
Write a firm newsletter article on a family law topic for client education.
Topic: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "What Changes When a Divorce Decree Includes a Parenting Plan" OR "Understanding How Child Support Is Calculated in [STATE]" OR "Why Family Law Clients Need to Update Their Estate Plans After Divorce"]
Target reader: [CURRENT / FORMER CLIENTS — family law — not legal professionals]
Article structure:
Headline: [CLEAR AND CLIENT-RELEVANT — not clever, just clear]
Opening: [Specific situation the reader recognizes — 2-3 sentences]
Key points: [3-5 specific, practical points the reader can learn and act on]
Common misconception: [What clients typically get wrong about this topic]
When to consult an attorney: [Specific triggers for seeking legal advice — concrete, not "whenever you have a question"]
Closing CTA: [Contact the firm for specific guidance — low-pressure]
Under 400 words. Plain English. No legal jargon without explanation.
Prompt 25 — Referral Thank-You Note
Write a professional thank-you note to a referral source following a family law referral.
Attorney: [NAME]
Referral source: [NAME AND RELATIONSHIP — e.g., therapist, financial advisor, former client, colleague]
Client referred: [FIRST NAME ONLY — or "the client you referred in [MONTH]"]
What you can share: [GENERAL CASE STATUS — e.g., "We met last week and I believe we can help her" — no confidential details]
Gratitude: [Specific and genuine — acknowledge the trust involved in a family law referral, which carries more emotional weight than a commercial referral]
Reciprocal relationship: [WHAT YOU CAN OFFER IN RETURN — referrals, professional introduction, lunch update]
Under 200 words. Handwritten is better for family law referrals — the relationship is personal, not transactional.
Prompt 26 — Continuing Legal Education Self-Assessment
Write a CLE self-assessment for a family law attorney's annual professional development plan.
Attorney: [NAME]
State bar CLE requirement: [HOURS PER YEAR / PER 3-YEAR PERIOD]
Ethics requirement: [HOURS — separate from general CLE]
Practice areas to strengthen this year:
1. [SPECIFIC AREA — e.g., "Cryptocurrency and digital asset valuation in high-asset divorce"]
2. [SPECIFIC AREA — e.g., "Interstate custody jurisdiction — UCCJEA application in relocation cases"]
3. [SPECIFIC AREA — e.g., "Collaborative law certification — meeting training requirements"]
CLE planned:
[PROGRAM 1 — NAME, PROVIDER, DATE, HOURS, TOPIC]
[PROGRAM 2]
[PROGRAM 3]
State bar / AAML / ABA Section activities: [COMMITTEE WORK, PRESENTATIONS, JOURNAL WRITING — planned or in progress]
Technology skill development: [CASE MANAGEMENT SOFTWARE, E-FILING SYSTEMS, AI TOOLS — specific skills to develop]
Self-assessment format. Under 300 words. Specific enough to actually guide decisions.
Prompt 27 — Demand Letter — Discovery Non-Compliance
Write a demand letter to opposing counsel for failure to comply with discovery obligations.
Sending attorney: [NAME AND BAR NUMBER]
Receiving attorney: [NAME]
Client (sending): [NAME]
Opposing party: [NAME]
Case number and jurisdiction: [COURT AND CASE NUMBER]
Discovery request at issue: [DESCRIBE — e.g., "Interrogatories dated [DATE]" or "Request for Production Set One dated [DATE]"]
Original response deadline: [DATE]
Current status: [NO RESPONSE RECEIVED / INCOMPLETE RESPONSE — specify what is missing]
Prior attempts to resolve: [DATE OF PRIOR COMMUNICATION AND RESPONSE IF ANY]
Specific deficiencies: [LIST — e.g., "Questions 4, 7, and 11 were not answered; financial institution statements requested in RFP #3 were not produced"]
Demand: [COMPLETE RESPONSES BY DATE — or "we will file a motion to compel"]
Good faith conferral: [PROPOSE A MEET AND CONFER DATE — required in most jurisdictions before motion]
Professional and firm — not hostile. Under 350 words.
Prompt 28 — Fee Agreement Explanation Letter
Write a client explanation letter for a family law retainer and fee agreement.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Retainer amount: [$X]
Hourly rate: [$X per hour for attorney / $X for paralegal / $X for associate if applicable]
What the retainer covers: [Plain language — the retainer is an advance deposit held in trust; it is not a flat fee; it will be drawn down as work is performed]
Monthly billing: [BILLING CYCLE — e.g., "You will receive a monthly statement itemizing all time spent. When your retainer balance falls below $X, we will request a replenishment."]
What is billed: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "All phone calls, emails, court appearances, document drafting, and any time spent on your matter is billed in [0.1 or 0.25] hour increments"]
What is not included in the retainer: [e.g., "Court filing fees, process server fees, expert witness fees, and deposition transcript costs are billed separately as they are incurred"]
Total cost transparency: [What factors drive total cost — contested vs. uncontested, how client behavior affects cost]
Plain language explanation. Under 350 words. Clients who understand billing have fewer disputes.
Prompt 29 — Collaborative Law Client Introduction Letter
Write an introduction letter explaining the collaborative family law process to a new client.
Attorney: [NAME — trained collaborative law attorney]
Client: [NAME]
What collaborative law is: [Plain language — 3-4 sentences. Distinguish from adversarial litigation and mediation.]
The collaborative team: [WHO IS INVOLVED — collaborative attorneys for both parties, financial neutral, mental health professional/communication coach if applicable]
How the process works: [STEPS — retaining collaborative attorneys, participation agreement, 4-phase meetings, settlement document drafting]
What happens if collaborative process fails: [The key commitment — both attorneys withdraw, neither can represent the client in subsequent litigation. Why this matters and how it protects the process integrity.]
Types of cases where collaborative works best: [HONEST ASSESSMENT — when collaborative law is appropriate vs. when it's not]
Your question to answer: [Is the client willing to share financial information voluntarily and commit to a settlement-focused process?]
Under 400 words. Plain language. Clients should understand both the benefits and the commitment before agreeing.
Prompt 30 — Motion Summary for Client Review
Write a motion summary memo for client review before filing.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Motion type: [NAME — e.g., Motion to Modify Parenting Time / Motion for Contempt / Motion for Summary Judgment on Grounds]
Filing deadline: [DATE]
What the motion asks the court to do: [PLAIN LANGUAGE — specific relief requested]
Why we are filing this motion: [FACTUAL BASIS — specific events or circumstances that justify the motion]
What we need from you before filing: [CLIENT REVIEW AND APPROVAL / SUPPORTING DECLARATION SIGNATURE / ADDITIONAL DOCUMENTS]
What opposing counsel will likely argue in response: [ANTICIPATED OPPOSITION AND HOW WE PLAN TO COUNTER]
Court hearing: [ANTICIPATED — when, format (in person / zoom), what to expect]
Our assessment of likelihood of success: [HONEST — e.g., "Strong — the facts clearly support the requested relief" / "Moderate — the outcome depends on judicial discretion" / "Difficult — we are filing to preserve your rights but the standard is high"]
Client-facing motion summary. Under 350 words. Plain language.
Supplemental Prompts
Prompt 31 — Adoption Petition Support Letter
Write a letter of support for a stepparent adoption petition.
Petitioner (stepparent): [NAME]
Adoptee: [CHILD'S FIRST NAME AND AGE]
Relationship duration: [HOW LONG THE STEPPARENT HAS BEEN IN THE CHILD'S LIFE]
Evidence of parental relationship:
1. [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Has attended all school events, parent-teacher conferences, and medical appointments for the past 4 years"]
2. [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Child calls petitioner 'Dad' and considers petitioner to be their primary father figure"]
3. [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Petitioner has provided financial support for child's education, activities, and medical care since [DATE]"]
Biological parent context: [CONSENT OBTAINED — signed / TERMINATION OF RIGHTS SOUGHT — basis and current status]
Child's expressed wishes (if age-appropriate): [WHAT THE CHILD HAS EXPRESSED — if court interview is planned]
Best interest factors: [STATE'S BEST INTEREST STANDARD — apply to the specific facts]
Support letter for adoption proceedings. Under 350 words.
Prompt 32 — Pre-Nuptial Agreement Checklist Letter to Client
Write a pre-nuptial agreement checklist letter to a client considering a prenuptial agreement.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Proposed marriage date: [DATE — timeline note for prenuptial planning]
What a prenuptial agreement can do: [SPECIFIC — e.g., characterize premarital assets, define treatment of business interests, address inheritance rights, specify spousal support terms]
What a prenuptial agreement cannot do: [CRITICAL — e.g., restrict child support rights, require illegal conduct, penalize a spouse for ordinary marital behavior]
Enforceability requirements in [STATE]: [JURISDICTION-SPECIFIC — e.g., both parties independently represented by counsel, full financial disclosure, adequate time before the wedding, no duress]
Information we need from you:
1. [ASSET LIST — premarital assets to characterize]
2. [BUSINESS INTERESTS — ownership documentation]
3. [DEBT — premarital liabilities]
4. [PRIOR MARRIAGE / CHILDREN — any prior support obligations]
Timeline: [DRAFT, REVIEW BY BOTH ATTORNEYS, SIGNING — recommend at least 30 days before wedding]
Under 350 words. Factual and clear.
Prompt 33 — Response to Opposing Counsel's Unreasonable Demand
Write a professional response letter to an unreasonable demand from opposing counsel.
Sending attorney: [NAME AND BAR NUMBER]
Receiving attorney: [NAME]
Case number: [COURT AND NUMBER]
Demand received: [WHAT OPPOSING COUNSEL DEMANDED — specific]
Date of demand: [DATE]
Why the demand is unreasonable: [SPECIFIC — legal basis, factual basis, or procedural problem with the demand]
Our position in response: [WHAT WE ARE WILLING TO DO — or willing to negotiate]
Next steps if demand is not withdrawn or modified: [SPECIFIC — motion to the court, request for judicial intervention, etc.]
Tone: [Professional, firm, non-personal — not hostile. This letter may be submitted to the court.]
Under 300 words. Professional tone throughout. Family law attorneys who write hostile letters are held to professional responsibility standards — keep it civil.
Prompt 34 — Court Appearance Preparation Memo for Client
Write a client preparation memo for a family court hearing.
Attorney: [NAME]
Client: [NAME]
Hearing type: [TEMPORARY ORDERS / STATUS CONFERENCE / CUSTODY EVALUATION REVIEW / TRIAL — specify]
Hearing date, time, and location: [SPECIFIC]
What this hearing is for: [PLAIN LANGUAGE — what the judge will decide]
What to wear: [SPECIFIC GUIDANCE — conservative professional attire, specific items to avoid]
Behavior in the courtroom: [HOW TO PRESENT — e.g., "Address the judge as 'Your Honor,' stand when the judge enters or leaves, do not react visibly to opposing party's statements, do not speak unless asked"]
What NOT to do: [SPECIFIC — e.g., "Do not bring your phone out in court, do not bring children to the courthouse, do not speak to the opposing party directly"]
What you will be asked: [ANTICIPATED QUESTIONS OR TESTIMONY — if testifying]
How long it will take: [REALISTIC ESTIMATE — e.g., "Status conferences typically last 15-30 minutes; we are fourth on the docket"]
What happens after: [NEXT STEPS DEPENDING ON OUTCOME]
Under 350 words. Practical and client-calming.
Prompt 35 — Legal Newsletter Social Post
Write a LinkedIn or social media post for a family law attorney sharing educational content.
Attorney: [NAME]
Topic: [SPECIFIC FAMILY LAW TOPIC — e.g., "Why the 'Mother Always Gets Custody' Myth Is Wrong in 2026" / "3 Questions to Ask Before Signing a Marital Settlement Agreement" / "What Happens to Your Business in a Divorce"]
Audience: [GENERAL PUBLIC — people considering or going through divorce; not legal professionals]
Format: [SHORT EDUCATIONAL POST — 150-250 words + 1-2 hashtags]
Structure:
Hook: [SPECIFIC, SURPRISING, OR COUNTERINTUITIVE OPENING — no "In today's world" — 1-2 sentences]
Educational content: [3-4 specific facts or points]
Call to action: [NON-SALESY — e.g., "Questions about your situation? DMs are open." or "Happy to connect with someone navigating this."]
Hashtags: [2 MAXIMUM — relevant but not spammy]
Under 250 words. First-person voice. Educational, not promotional.
Start With These Three
- Prompt 1 — Standard parenting plan framework. The single document family law attorneys spend the most time drafting. Use this as the structural scaffold and add your family-specific facts. The structure — especially the holiday schedule and communication provisions — is what clients fight over; having it drafted correctly the first time reduces revision cycles.
- Prompt 9 — QDRO preparation letter to plan administrator. Every attorney who handles divorce with retirement assets needs this letter. The information you request determines how quickly you can draft the QDRO — missing any of the six items listed here means a second round of correspondence.
- Prompt 19 — Mediation position statement. A well-written mediation position statement changes the outcome of mediation. Mediators read them before the session starts. A clear, factual, reasonable-sounding statement from your client builds credibility before anyone sits down at the table.
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